10 rules to please him in bed

Due to the lack of relevant knowledge, many women do not know how to please their partners in bed or apply the techniques learned from porn to them. However, what they don't understand is that most people cannot use the method of porn to engage in sexual activities because everyone is a different individual. To address the issue of many women's insufficient understanding of sex, we have put forward ten principles to help you better engage in sexual activity.

1. Pleasing oneself is as important as pleasing the other person

Sometimes, women try their best to cooperate with their partner's needs out of fear that they may not be satisfied. But sex is actually the giving and receiving of both parties. If one blindly satisfies the other, women will eventually become resentful of 'that kind of thing'. Women should directly explain their needs to each other without feeling guilty or embarrassed, because in fact, men prefer women who can enjoy sex. When a man discovers that his actions can bring happiness to women, it excites him more than any aphrodisiac.

2. Don't pretend to have an orgasm

In order to please men, some women can simulate orgasm in a realistic way, making it difficult for men to distinguish. But when they did so, they did not consider the long-term consequences: if they pretended to climax without feeling happy, it would undoubtedly make men repeat their wrong actions again, because they mistakenly thought that way would make women happy. A woman once had the experience of her partner vigorously rubbing her genitals, trying to make her reach orgasm, but causing her a lot of pain. She was too embarrassed to tell him that his way was too rude, so she pretended to reach orgasm to make him stop. Unexpectedly, he would rub her in such a rude way every time in the future, causing her more and more pain. In the end, she couldn't bear it and had to tell him the truth. This dealt a great blow to the man, and the woman was also very regretful. It would have been better if she had explained it clearly from the beginning.

3. Don't ignore other parts of a man's body

Usually, men seem to be able to enter without any foreplay and enjoy it very much. Actually, this is their own misunderstanding. Touching and teasing can excite men greatly, because when women do so, they are saying how much they love their bodies. Some women may feel shy and hesitant to take action, but there is absolutely no man who dislikes women doing so. Therefore, just have the courage to do it and you will immediately see visible results. Touching and teasing is very simple, just keep sliding your fingers over his entire body, especially the inner thighs and nipples; Sometimes touching his lower part as a tease. Additionally, women can use their hair, tongue, and eyelashes to enhance the teasing effect.

4. Don't be afraid of sexual fantasies

A woman admitted that every time she had sex with her husband, she imagined it was with Leonardo DiCaprio. This kind of imagination made her extremely excited, and her husband also found joy in her wild actions. She doesn't think it's a big deal, anyway she can't really have an affair with Matt Damon. Experts say that sexual fantasies are healthy because they are not only a great driving force, but also because what happens in the fantasies doesn't necessarily have to be true. For example, if a heterosexual man fantasizes about a woman

The situation of homosexuality does not necessarily mean that he is a gay man; A woman imagining having sex with a man other than her husband does not necessarily mean she wants to have an affair. Sexual fantasies only show that the person has a rich imagination, and this can indeed stimulate sexual activity.

5. Learn to masturbate

Since men's first ejaculation usually comes from masturbation, the proportion of women doing so is definitely not low. In fact, masturbation is a very effective way of learning, because after understanding one's own body, one can guide their partner to have sex in the most appropriate way. Masturbation has another benefit: it can definitely lead to orgasm.

 6. Do not remain unchanged

If you have sex in the exact same way every night, even if you reach orgasm every time, it will still become boring in the end. This is because there is no expectation left. In the personal experience of a certain woman, as long as she is on top and rubs the male genitalia with her hips in a circle, she can reach orgasm. Therefore, they adopt this posture every time they have sex, quickly reaching orgasm and hastily ending, with no satisfaction at all. In fact, it's the old saying: the slower something is, the more delicious it tastes. That is to say, the slower one reaches orgasm, the stronger the pleasure. When taking the most stimulating posture, once it reaches a level that is enough to arouse excitement, do not wait until orgasm arrives and switch to other postures. This is not only to delay the onset of orgasm, but also to take the opportunity to explore the fun of other postures.

7. Understand the other person's body

We know everyone is different, and it's the same when it comes to sex. It is inappropriate for women who have had sexual experience with other men before to apply their previous methods to their current partners. So, how can we understand what the other person likes? This depends on careful observation. Of course, some people may automatically express their preferences through moaning or shouting, but many people may belong to the type where silence is golden. At this time, you can listen to whether their breathing is accelerating or taking a deep breath; Did his pupils suddenly dilate; Loose chin; The most obvious one is the hardening of the penis. This observation won't take long, and it will seamlessly match his preferences.

8. Love your body

Nine out of ten modern women feel overweight. When meeting naked, such self deprecating views can sometimes hinder the two from enjoying the pleasure they deserve. For example, people who think their breasts are too small may feel inferior when their partner touches them, and instinctively avoid their hands or guide them to pay attention to other places. Over time, such signals can cause distress to partners, thus affecting sexual relationships. A woman trained herself to think like this: although her breasts are not big, men are happy to sleep with her, which proves that they do not think there is anything wrong with her breasts. So, she no longer resisted her male partner touching her chest.

9. Make good use of auxiliary equipment

Both adult products and pornographic videos are great tools for adding sexual pleasure, as they can provide many new ideas and increase excitement. For some people, sex toys can even solve the problem of sexual incompatibility. A woman who finds it difficult to reach orgasm had to reach orgasm by hand after her partner withdrew, which made her partner feel embarrassed. Later, she bought a pad with a surface covered in particles and a hole in the middle for the penis to penetrate, and placed it in her genital area. This way, every insertion by her partner would cause the pad to rub against her genital area, bringing her a pleasure she had never experienced before. Purchasing such items can be done through TV mail order or online to avoid unnecessary embarrassment.

10. Take effective contraceptive measures

Contraception is always an inevitable part of sex, and it is even more important for women to pay attention to it, because once an unexpected pregnancy occurs, men can only give sympathetic looks and hugs, and all the psychological and physical pain can only be borne by us women. Therefore, taking good contraceptive measures is necessary to enjoy worry free sex and make sexual pleasure more harmonious and wonderful!